Take control of your life & play with your own rules.
Why do people impose their thoughts and experience on others? Does it really benefit? Do they really care about you, or is it just their ego talking? Is it about controlling your life? Questions of such nature keep popping in my head when I face some situations. I am certain that this pondering of mine has no absolute answer. It is an open-ended topic that leads to further revelations plus confusion.
With this questioning comes the floodgate of people’s personal thoughts, experiences, reasoning, and logic. I have encountered many people who feel it’s their duty to impose their opinions on every aspect of your life. Nothing is free from their claim; be it your marriage partner, education, raising kids, or buying a house. You name it, and they will have something to say about it.
I have never heard a single person say, “Oh! I like you for intruding in my life.” People who impose on others show that they have no regard for other’s needs or space. Even when the imposer has the best of intention, others may end up resenting them. Forcing your beliefs on someone actually sounds like “I am better than you in some way.”
I don’t wanna live life
based on someone else’s idea.
I wanna live it
figuring it out for myself.
– Srija TammisettiIgnore these people, and if you can, stop associating and conversing with them. Don’t let the poisonous views of these negative people infiltrate your mind. These are the type of people you need to get out of your life because they will confine you to a mediocre life. These people do not see that they are negative and they have a bad affect on others. Be positive or shut your mouth, negative vibes are not appreciated by anyone.
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